"When you need money for bills and you are not sure if it will be coming in, what do you do? I usually worry how I am going to pay these bills, which makes me feel bad and insecure and the not knowing is scary! I would really appreciate your input on this as it is a consistent issue for me."- Niki
Here's my response:
Good question!
There are two main things to consider here: Environments and Focus (your vibe).
Obviously you don't want a worry vibe around money, because this just perpetuates the circumstances. So you can do mindset makeover strategies such as using the PSYCH-K process, you can release the worry energy around the bills using something like EFT, you can challenge your thinking using Byron Katie's questioning technique (The Work)
With this particular money issue, I have also found that re-designing environments to make all this easier is really helpful. In other words, what is there in your physical environment that you can change to alleviate the reminder of bills, the pressure of paying them? I would take practical action to lessen this stress in your life. Some examples are: are there ways to streamline your spending and obligations? what can you do differently to minimise your outgoings? What can you do to increase revenue? Take another on-the-side job to fund the basic expenses (therefore keep your worry about losing the house off your plate) and so on.
BUT the big question I have for you is this: if you are usually worried about paying your bills, do you usually get them paid? Do you somehow manage to make the payments? It sounds like you still manage to keep things going, but have not tuned in to the magic that you are creating and attracting in doing this! How do you manage to pay the bills each month? If it's a surprise gift from Uncle John, or a line of credit from the bank, or you sold an old piece of furniture - rather than discount this (because it did not come from the channel you expected -i.e. your business) - notice and celebrate at how marvelous it is that money and your needs are met in unique and wonderful ways! In this way you start to notice how clever you really are with money!
What happens then is that instead of worry about how to pay the bills, you are instead in a state of delighted anticipation about how it is all going to unfold - curious and grateful, rather than worried and stressed. AND you still take practical action to attract money (such as selling your work, or creating new venture relationships and so on). When you drop the worry, it makes it so much easier to see the opportunities that are probably all around you right now.
I told a story on my last teleclass about this very thing - I made $50 000 in one day doing nothing - how? When I was diagnosed with cancer, my insurance payout was $50 000. Amazing! no, it was not from my business - but was I going to let my ego get in the way of this gift from the Universe? No way!
So tune in to where the miracles that are turning up - and you will soon be learning that things are magic - well and truly.
Zoe
P.S. You can get more great tips and strategies with the Three Pillars of Personal Power Law of Attraction Block Buster System.
Good question!
There are two main things to consider here: Environments and Focus (your vibe).
Obviously you don't want a worry vibe around money, because this just perpetuates the circumstances. So you can do mindset makeover strategies such as using the PSYCH-K process, you can release the worry energy around the bills using something like EFT, you can challenge your thinking using Byron Katie's questioning technique (The Work)
With this particular money issue, I have also found that re-designing environments to make all this easier is really helpful. In other words, what is there in your physical environment that you can change to alleviate the reminder of bills, the pressure of paying them? I would take practical action to lessen this stress in your life. Some examples are: are there ways to streamline your spending and obligations? what can you do differently to minimise your outgoings? What can you do to increase revenue? Take another on-the-side job to fund the basic expenses (therefore keep your worry about losing the house off your plate) and so on.
BUT the big question I have for you is this: if you are usually worried about paying your bills, do you usually get them paid? Do you somehow manage to make the payments? It sounds like you still manage to keep things going, but have not tuned in to the magic that you are creating and attracting in doing this! How do you manage to pay the bills each month? If it's a surprise gift from Uncle John, or a line of credit from the bank, or you sold an old piece of furniture - rather than discount this (because it did not come from the channel you expected -i.e. your business) - notice and celebrate at how marvelous it is that money and your needs are met in unique and wonderful ways! In this way you start to notice how clever you really are with money!
What happens then is that instead of worry about how to pay the bills, you are instead in a state of delighted anticipation about how it is all going to unfold - curious and grateful, rather than worried and stressed. AND you still take practical action to attract money (such as selling your work, or creating new venture relationships and so on). When you drop the worry, it makes it so much easier to see the opportunities that are probably all around you right now.
I told a story on my last teleclass about this very thing - I made $50 000 in one day doing nothing - how? When I was diagnosed with cancer, my insurance payout was $50 000. Amazing! no, it was not from my business - but was I going to let my ego get in the way of this gift from the Universe? No way!
So tune in to where the miracles that are turning up - and you will soon be learning that things are magic - well and truly.
Zoe
P.S. You can get more great tips and strategies with the Three Pillars of Personal Power Law of Attraction Block Buster System.
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